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FAIR DINKUM AUSTRALIAN RATINGS FDR 1Star 
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The Glass House People The aim of putting up this report is to do something about bigotry and discrimination within Australian families and make the perpetrators wake up to themselves and get fair dinkum for the first time in their lives. If one victim puts up his story, the hope is others will identify with it and put up theirs, then maybe by showing we are not frightened or ashamed to air the family's dirty laundry - effectively naming and shaming the perpetrators, maybe we can force them to stop and be educated about the advantges of Tolerance and Harmony to Australia's future prosperity as a nation. And perhaps one day if we can get enough support, we can force Prime Minister Kevin Rudd's Government to significantly improve and make more effective, Domestic Violence / Child Abuse / Anti-Discrimination Laws - to make it illegal for parents and siblings to indoctrinate another family member against their will with a fundamentalist religion or custom, i.e. forcing them to be members of their in-group. This case study is about being the victim of bigotry, effectively domestic violence / child abuse going back to when Pete was a kid growing up in that family home, up to his early 20s during univeristy, then being kicked out by the classic family matriarch / bigot. And and starting up again decades later in his late 40s on his return to live at that house because of various socio-economic circumstances, including suddenly being a father, and responsibility of aged-care for his parents (ironically including the same perennial bigot). Also it's part of the case study examples of the Fair Dinkum Australian Ratings. In that context, this case study shows how too many dysfunctional families are a deadweight on our country, especially those in which bigotry is endemic. The method is not only to name and shame, but also to show that the perpetrators are world class hypocrites. Particularly by presenting it as a survey, what do outsiders think, who are the Fair Dinkum Australians, and who are the deadbeats that need to learn about being fair dinkum. The in-group would have us believe that Peter is evil, (equating to FDRating 1 Star) while all them are most definitely fine upstanding members of Australian society (FDR 5 Stars). What do you think? What follows is some draft excerpts - the bits and pieces extracted here and there, thus somewhat disjointed - obviously dependent on the time the writer has to tinker / dabble with it while juggling other issues - that can be added to - it's from a much larger and detailed case study with supporting material / evidence (it's so much easier nowadays in the Internet age to reseach, track down all kinds of information, people) - which in any event will be made public on automatic triggering or the death (or significant health failing) of the author, Peter Hogan. It will also add some colour when we start adding some photos and videos. But first Peter's version of events. People who live in glass houses really shouldn't throw stones. You kick a dog (especially an old, ailing one) it will bite back... Especially when the cowardly immoral hypocrites use unfair numbers - 5 against 1, appalling ganging-up tactics, a pre-meditated witchhunt, a modernday Spanish Inquisition... Thus the key underlying issue in the case at hand is rating one person against another, especially within a family / clan - what measures do you use, how do you determine that one person is better than another. Most of us know that nobody is perfect, we all have our faults, and that we are pretty much trying to do the best we can with the cards we got dealt - an infinite number of chance events, "butterfly effects", over a large time period, much of it going back generations - where you are born, into what kind of family, what skin colour, class level, accidents, disease, wars, discrimination, even what era considering the big differenes in life expectancy and affordable health care... And then there's more specific issues like: parent-offspring conflict, bigotry, religious discrimination / indoctrination in the family house / community; sibling rivalry and jealousy, shitfight over inheritance; religion as the opium of the plebeians - the rich / Establishment encourage limited narrow education, 24 hours in a day / 80 years in a lifetime - time allocation - reading the same flawed book over and over - limited skills - can't use modern technology or comprehend methods to increase clan wealth and pass it on to the next generation...; 'Scratch an altruist and a hypocrite bleeds.' Irish family syndrome - shooting each other in the foot, and shooting yourself in the foot, internecine, the rich get richer the poor get children... A good refence is The Moral Animal by Robert Wright. Policing morality - since time in immemorial, we have used gossip and shame and the threat of being exposed, of being osctracized - to get people to comply with moral codes. Anyway, for this paper the definition of acceptable behaviour re moral codes is: Though we all lie and cheat, if any individual living in a glass house and holding themselves up to be ideal role models - goes out of their way to throw stones at other individuals, then they are breaking the moral code, violating acceptable behaviour. Such abusive hypocrites inevitably must be exposed and held to account. On to some of the details of the case Details of the straw that broke the camel's back. Thursday 19iv07, one Catherine Busuttil (CB) bales her brother Peter up with a family meeting among the 4 siblings (including David from Port Macquarie, Julie from Bridgewater, Adelaide) in 2 days on Saturday 21iv. Smelling something rotten (all siblings coming to Sydney, clearly they've all known about it much longer than me Pete...) He put CB on the spot, was this meeting - the Ray and Catherine Busuttil Show - we'll show them how cool we are at organizing events / Inquisitions - was this meeting a setup, an ambush, an inquistion, a witch-hunt? Saint Catherine, world class hypocrite lies through her teeth, "Oh no, we just want to see where we're at." So a whole family comes together at the family compound in Sydney - from far away, Adelaide, Port Macquarie - get around the family table, overseen of course by sibling husband 'Pastor' Raymond Busuttil - and for 2 hours they, the in-group, proceed to throw stones at one sibling (Pete) a member of the out-group - 5 against 1 - a modern-day Spanish Inquisition, a witch-hunt - and he just sat there and let these fine upstanding members of our society go for it. Isn't internecine just great for the country? What goes around comes around... Only Peter is the problem - the bad son, father, partner. The spotlight was only going to be on him. They were in no way at fault... But it's Peter that is on the ground, on frontline, in the actual family house - doing the aged care thing (parents over 80) - with the Classic Family Matriarch that you can't please, even if you save her husband's life. All while the siblings are at a safe distance (Port Macquarie, Bridgewater Adelaide, Croydon) - their days free to just focus on their own families. Of course, and every now again they will phone in, or even a quick, as in very quick, visit to the family house in Sydney. And all the siblings have known since they were kids just how trying the Matriarch can be, not surprising since she raised 4 children without any help from any grandparents (3 dead, and hated her living father for returning to the women he started out with...) in the 50s to 70s - so no wonder she had her nervous breakdowns and turned desparately to the usual crux for plebeians, fundamentalist religion. So when it comes to years of domestic abuse / discrimination of one sibling over religion - the attacks, harassment, undermining, the constant implication that he is some how lagging far behind other members of the in-group, i.e. all other members of the family, in terms of 'their' moral codes, especially as a parent, partner, son, sibling and citizen... Well, then it's ineluctable that we get to that last straw. Obviously it becomes totally impractical for one individual to have to keep fending off attacks from so many people - being outnumbered is an understatement. Unless there is a backing off and atonement for damage done, then it's time to get this sociological case study out in the public domain - see what other people reckon. Who out of all members of this dysfunctional family is the most fair dinkum Australian? Let some objective 'outside' third parties have a look at it, is Peter so far behind all these self righteous stone throwers. Have a look at his oeuvre / life's work (not to mention the only real objective assessment in all this - that Peter's work has been archived in the National Library of Australia). And compare his performance with what they've done with their lives, all the way through, and what respective legacies will be left after the respective tours end. That's what has changed now in these modern times, especially with the Internet. In the old days you could abuse people, be a hypocrite at the local / family level and nobody would ever find out - no shame. But now, it's not just writing a few well put together letters to certain organizations, there's all kinds of places on the Internet - blogs, chatrooms, selective emailing, and if you happen to have your own popular website and it's an election year and you're playing around with idea of running for a Senate seat, even more eyeballs drop by - it's amazing who happens to find out about the real you, and you wonder why they seem to be different around you, looking at you in a funny way - do they know - have they read it? A survey needs to be done to find out who are "The World Class Hypocrites" here. It's time to hang out the dirty laundry. And the candidates for World Class Evangelist Hypocrites are: 'Pastor' Raymond Busuttil (b. c.'1959) - failed tradesmen, electrician, aspiring TV, high flyer envangelist, drags his family to Ukraine for the European Christian Mission ECM - probably had to return to Australia because of wife's nervous breakdowns, and his children were starting to get married at teen-age - that's church fellowships for you - all very acceptable this encouraging and condoning teenage marriage - the example it sets for the other teenage grandchildren - not embarrassing, shameful, as long as you are a member of the in-group... Catherine Busuttil, nee Hogan (b. '1961) - wife of aspiring envangelist, class A stone thrower, protégé of her mother, and totally fundamentalist schizophrenic... David & Joanne Hogan (b. '1952 & '1947) now happily escaped to Port Macquarie where nobody knows their past - or do they? Simon & Julie Breen (b. '1962 & '1964) a fine upstanding family of Bridgewater, Adelaide - bushfire country - of course that's not a problem for them - a lovely family with 4 boys - except that it has needed constant long distance mercy dashes from her elderly parents (because his mother was useless) after various nervous breakdowns... The Classic Family Matriarch (CFM) - armchair evangelist, dedicated bigot, tennis fanatic - nobody is really sure which is her true religion... Mr Ray Busuttil said to me several years ago, words to the effect, that he (and of course his wife) was not going to be backward in pushing his religious beliefs on people. Well, if you put it out there like that, then 'what goes around, comes around'. Back then Busuttil was still a tradesman, and electrian, with the then NSW government / public service electricity department (SCC - Sydney County Concil). He and Catherine were then living in a little fibro house in Carlton (suburb of Sydney) - a typical 'lower - income lifestyle' and like everyone else in that demographic, not going anywhere. There was another factor in Ray and Catherine deciding that he would give up his government electrician job and become an aspiring evangelist - family rivalry. You see Catherine's sister, Julie was married to a Simon Breen who had taken over his father's lucrative chiropractic business in Adelaide - they have a lovely 'upper - middle income' lifestyle, beautiful house out in the posh Adelaide Hills... Of course they have their problems too (see more below)... Anyways one could clearly see the rivalry between the Busuttils and Breens, I even mentioned it to Julie once and was quite surprised that she was quick to agree, "I don't why they should feel like that [the need to compete]..." Some of the straws that broke the camels back... - Interestingly it was 25 December - yep, the pagan northern hemisphere winter solstice sun god festival - morning of '94 - time when most people let bygones be bygones - but not Catherine Busuttil. - Katsuko Azumai and Peter had a 4 year relationship, we were quite compatible the only such relationship he would ever have. Of course they met in Japan. Came back to Australia to see if they could get a start. It was always going to be difficult for Katsuko especially coming from a rich family. Had only been back a short time, staying at Kings Cross - weren't allowed to stay at the family house - not in the same room - because not married and Peter was only 38... Anyways they were struggling with the adjustment - completely different culture to Japan. That morning they had been fighting and it was a battle to get her over to the family house in time for the gift giving and family dinner. Finally talked Katsuko into it - got there - remembered vividly, they were in the back room of the family house, trying to appease her and do last minute wrapping. Then in comes Catherine throwing a tirade about something, still had no idea what it was about - but she kept saying P had to go and apologize to Mum and Dad - here he was thinking what a great effort it was to hold everything together to just be there - and distinctly remembers the look on Katsuko's face (who of course could not follow the English) - the look of, "my first introduction to Australian hospitality - Peter's sister is probably going to introduce herself and help me to settle in..." Catherine didn't let up - absolutely unbelievable - if you have an issue pick a time and place... P knew with all the pressure he'd been under he was losing it, ready to put his fist through 'fucking typical self-righteous' Catherine's brain... Some how he got CB out of the room, got through the festivities and split before going through with an overpowering urge to kill someone... That was it for Katsuko and Peter - never recovered. Enormous damage had been done that would have extreme pyschological, and socio-economic ramifications. Soon Peter was alone, for the rest of my life. (Sumitra would later use him to get her mother into Australia. Careless people like these evangelist hypocrites can go on, everyday - nice times together, laugh, trips, throwing stones at the other silly people who for some reason don't have their lives in order, like them... You'd think after returning from the Ukraine - these people might have a better understanding of what reverse culture shock is like... The marriage hypocrisy And then came the attack from CFM (Classic Family Matriarch) - "You people are not married, you lied - sleeping in the same bed in my house... " She gets told by a 'little birdie' after that birdie's visit to Yass where she just happens to meet a religious counterpart of the Busuttils who divulges confidential information about us, having known SK from when they were 'stationed' at Auburn... Later, after one too many tirades from SK in front of our toddler daughter Pete starts sleeping and working overnight (especially since her son plays on the Internet all day with his $10,000 laptop he sucked her into...) CFM chucks another massive attack as to why "Aren't you two sleeping in the same bed". Imagine that doubel standard in the light of the desperate situation years earlier at that critical time when Katsuko and Pete had just arrived from Japan and need to get settled... And then there is always the hint (as in, "Get out!") from Mum for us to live else where often after communication with Catherine. Straight out bigotry because Pete is not a member of the in-group. Of course that goes back to being about 12, in the middle of the night - waking - hearing commotion in the kitchen - some kind of whacko religous thing going on with Nora Cox (one very cracked human being) - go in and my own mother calls me the devil! And she hasn't let up since. Which made more since later when he realized she probably compares him to her father - Pete was almost born on his birthday... but family history reseach indicated it again takes two to tango in a relationship - that it was not a simple callous move on his part of leaving Mum's mother Mabel Nesbitt for another woman, but quite likely returning to the woman, Ede, from whom Mabel stole him away when Ede was probably pregnant with his baby - both Ede and Mabel just wanting to escape small-town Stannifer... (William Murray and Edith Murray share the same cremation stone at Rookwood cemetary - she died 5 months after him in '1964.) As young children there was good news and bad news. The bad news: 3 of your grandparents died before your parents got married in their 50s. The good news: there is one still living, Mum's father is still alive, "but your never meeting him because I hate his guts" - it was all his fault. Even her older (and revered by her) brother, Jeffrey got along with his father right up until he died. Actually we didn't even know he existed, but the man worked right up until the day he died, at almost 70, on his way to work. No retirement in those days. Ironically, my parents generation enjoyed the best of it - could work in lifelong government jobs and retire at 60 - Medicare - all that will soon be gone again. Like any family history - it's all just full of shotgun weddings, out wedlock pregnancies, And if DNA checking was done, who knows who is the real parent / lineage... Pete remember one time when sister Julie got serious with a black guy throught the proverbial church 'fellowship' - she was about 19 - Mum and Dad - weren't having a bar of it - straightout racism. Turns out Mum by most racist definitions is black herself - her grandmother, Alice Murray - so black you can't see her face in the old photograph. And then there was the medical malpractice with Dr Sidhom, not only doesn't she know how to prescribe standard medication like salt tablets to the elderly - which as we found out can be fatal, she can't even be bothered checking MIMS. For all we know, if her offsider, Dr Bazergy, didn't have the guts to tell his colleague, she is still doing it. She should have been reported a long time ago, but for cowering to Mum's appalling tantrum - basically we said as long as our family survived it, that's OK, too bad if they don't have someone who can do what I did. After initial recovery Dad was deteriorating at St Geoerge...arguably Peter saved Dad's life in finding Dr Vale... Who else had the eclectic (from not reading the same book of plagiarisms every day) intelligence to pull that off. And Peter does all that, only to be told by Mum / CFM that "she had been having a good think about it" [her exact words in the lead-in] - basically it wasn't really Peter that did it, nothing to do with years of developing that eclectic knowledge through boring RSI hard work. No, CFM basically made it clear that god temporarily used an evil person like Peter, because the wonderful other siblings were temporarily unavailable or something. And straight after, of course, Peter reverted to is usual evil old self. And of course CFM has her share of the usual baggage - the guilt complexes, especially before marriage, the teenager in the '1940s, during WWII, all those soldiers on leave... of course teenagers are much worse in the succeeding generations, aren't they ...but it's funny what information you manage to track down when you do family history research, and from who... and the eyewitness accounts of what went on, the Americans in Sydney with nylon stockings... human behaviour when people think they'll never see each other again... what the grass of Hyde Park (heart of Sydney City) was used for... the pre-abortion clinic days... but of course, for those that made it through, under the hypocrite's creed, once they get married and have that 'piece of paper', all that went before, gets 'eee-rased' - free to throw stones at the next teenage generations for being so promiscuous... The Bigotry Vicious Circle When Mum and Dad got married in '1950 their 'mixed' marriage between a Protestant and Catholic was absolutley frowned upon - classic Anglo-Irish bigotry. As one of Dad's sisters apparently told Mum at the time, "Your're lucky their mother is dead [at 57] she would not have accepted you..." They could very easily have been in a position like many other couples at the time where they were around the Matriarch and Mum would have copped the abuse day in and day out. It was a no win sitution though, because her own mother being dead at a 55 meant that she had to raise 4 kids without the help of any grandparents - although there was a useful inheritance from the sale of Dad's family's Byron Bay property which enable them to get out of renting and put a deposit on a house (as for Mum's side her wonderful Murray siblings, now basking up the NSW coast, happily retired for decades, cheated her out of her share of the sale of the family house in Sydney back in those early years when a young family desparately needed the money...) And yet it all ways seems to be the motif that when the victim of bigotry grows up, especially the daughter-in-law, she then becomes a bigot herself - there's no "I would never be so narrow-minded myself, and do what was done to me..." So for decades in our own family bigotry and discrimination and ganging up has been condoned of one of the siblings, Peter, since he was a kid, and has only worsened over the years. Recently after 57 years of marriage, Mum drag ailing Dad off to what was thought to be 'marriage counselling' - turned out to another of those evangelist pastors with their own website, the very Rev Kel Willis of 'Christian Growth Ministries'... He actually made the bigotry worse, next thing he's over at the family house putting the boot into Peter too, pretending to be a family dispute mediator (beware, Kel Willis is definitely not a Federal Government Family Relationship Centre) "Registered Dispute Provider"). What an impostor! Even though Peter respectfully requested him to excuse himself on account of the obvious bias, he just went right ahead and baited Pete, with the obvious intent of inciting domestic violence. A special webpage exposing this deadbeat will be going up in due course. First Born / Parenting / Family Comparisons - All these siblings that supposedly leave Peter's daughter, and his parenting for dead ... David & Joanne Hogan - Port Macquarie...[which extracts to paste in here ] ... talk about hypocrisy / fair dinkum morality rating a convicted tax fraud - probably the worst crime you can commit against your fellow Australian is to be found guilty of not putting in your share, leaving other Australians to pay more tax - an unequivocal objective indicator of the true character of an individual, sneeking around in the middle of the night to pick up mail from post office box under a bogus name... They have no kids / no jobs / no complications and do sweet FA for Australia - but of course they're looked on to be fine upstanding members of their adopted local community... ...the early years... teaching little brother to be ashamed of father - hide down in back seat of old FJ Holden so nobody can see us ...threatening and shooting with air rifle at point blank range, just missing artery ... the role model - locked in room his bedroom for 30 years... short respite when now adult friend from childhood (PG from Singleton) moves to Sydney, closeby to our family house, with her mother (TG), after breakup of the marriage, but mother took little time in determining David was definitely not of acceptable quality for her daughter and suddenly moved her family to the other side of Sydney and forbid David to see her daughter ever again (our family especially CFM pretended it never happened) ... then he was off to Gouldburn, ahh the Goulburn research - very interesting who you can still track down, still remember him suddenly leaving Goulburn after several years and returning to Sydney, and then we got 'that phone call' from 'that guy', who said, well, something we weren't exactly expecting... which explained why David had to leave Goulburn (again we pretended we never got that phone call) ... then he was definitely going to be a priest in the Catholic Church, did all the preparation, sighed up, off he went to priesthood school, a priest in the family, his own parish church oneday, but then suddenly he quit, what do you think happened there... now was that before or after he was going away forever to Townsville (or was that the Italy one) and sent Mum a Mothers Day present which triggered somekind of mini heart attack or something effecting the brain, and she subsequently had a turn, lost her memory, didn't know who we were for quite a while there, very similar to what happened just recently, brought on by being with Catherine ... Now clearly from all this, there has never been, nor can there ever be in the future, any doubt about David Hogan's mental competence - very sound, fine upstanding, normal person, streets ahead of younger brother Peter - the funny one. And just recently David made it very clear, baling me up in the front yard on returning home (then he disappeared back to the Fort at the European Christian Mission, Croydon) stating straight out that I was the mentally unsound one, he was normal, and that I needed psychiatric treatment. ... not surprisingly an 'arranged late-marriage' as usual organized through the church 'fellowship' group to older women, with weight problem (even asked me one time what he could do about the 'middle of the night to the fridge freezer and demolish a whole tub of ice cream binges' - even then I thought why is he asking me?)... they had no kids for some reason - and too selfish to even adopt some under privileged kid ... when Peter is struggling in Japan and he asks for someone to send him Blackmore multi-vitamins, Joannes scribbles a rejection note back, "Why don't you write to the Australian manufacturer>", and Pete in vain did... but they were all happy to send lots of aid packages to the Busuttils in the Ukraine - talk about sending something - David and Joanne, even flew over to show their support for the infamous teenage wedding of Pastor Busuttil's daughter. Oh yes that bit - the invitation to dinner at Joanne's Allawah apartment episode some years ago - after I had been only a day or so back from Japan - turns out to be really about "Can you stay in Sydney and look after Mum and Dad, we want to escape to Port Macquarie, and we feel guilty leaving them" - get back home tell Mum what it was really all about, Mum says "Bloody David, can't even look after himself ... in 21iv07 family meeting / "Ambush of Peter" make sweeping statement house will be sold and offer to take Mum or Dad on death - presumably Dad would be the most likely to die first and Mum goes to Pt Macquaries - all this when we have the big escape from Allawah / abandon Mum and Dad mentioned above, and currently when he / they visit Sydney it particular upsets Mum (and Dad too) that they make such short trips and spend very little time with them, everything about their relationship indicates to the objective observer that it's highly selfish - not even adopting some under-privileged orphan... plus neither Mum or Dad can stand to stay you (and the others) for more than a few days... even get hypocritical email from DH that states if the he (or the other siblings) were in living at the family house they would be doing a lot more for M&D than P (and SK / family) - yet the evidence clearly shows that even on short trips, does nothing... No wonder they were in such a panic to escape - everyone knows about the hassle - the time and cost of being the sibling stuck with looking after the ageing parents - and got out they did - a lot easier to save a shitload of money when you don't have kids - so off they went to Pt Macq - and that became a good excuse for David to say "There's no work in these country towns" - so he could also retire in his 40s - did that mean he could come back down to Sydney more often and help out - give Peter a break - well they come down often, all right - for themselves that is - visit friends, go to the theatre or something - then shoot through - even Mum, who considers them perfect compared to Peter gets understandably upset about that... Pastor Ray and Catherine Busuttil - Croydon Sydney NSW Australia - [which extracts to paste in here... ] Another arranged marriage through church 'fellowship' group. It really is a very common phenonomen, lonely people who can't find a boyfriend or girlfriend the normal. In this case, because Catherine grew up a tomboy with 2 older brothers, and Raymond trying to marry out of his Maltese Australian immigrant background, apparently a thankless son to his father, too. These couples like Pastor Ray and Catherine Busuttil go around boasting about how they stayed married and faithful for 26 years, and still have a wonderful sex life. But big deal, there's not going to be anyone tempting them to be unfaithful. They have to stay married, where are they going to go, nobody else is going to want them. ...constantly held up as the model family - far and away - leave Peter for dead - .... the elderst girl meets a guy through church 'fellowship' during the Ukraine 'mission' - married at 19 in the modern age... what kind of example and double standard does that set - the criticism I cop over the marriage issue - but when a Busuttil family member gets married at 19 - no problems. There you have it - the proud culture of Ukraine with so much history - upstarts from Australia - the Busuttil family, ancestors originally from Europe, are sent to Ukraine to teach them how to live 'proper' lives - and proper means encouraging teenage marriage... The model family - the model upbringing - indoctrinate the children from a very early age - just like CFM attempted to do by physically trying to abduct (as in absolutely against the father's will) Peter's daughter at 2 years of age. Then it's growing up in these fellowships - this ineluctable 'bonding' - and thus highly conducive to teenage marriage. Yep, Pastor Busuttil is one of those fundamentalist religion marketers that push these 'Church Fellowship Groups' from toddler age - that eventually encourage and condone teenage marriage - including his, the Pastor's daughter - what kind of puritan role model example is that? And what does it take to invoke moral and commonsense questioning in the modernage of equality where teenage girls have so many career options - what age before it invokes outrage from even fellow hypocrites... 18, 17, 16... And what about the other twists - Julie had faithfully followed the system when still a teenager she got it all wrong, very serious about a guy she had bonded with at fellowship - brings him home to meet the parents and make the big announcement that they were now 'serious. Just one problem. He's black! Now good christian parents are not racist hypocrites, even though they went through the mixed marriage prejudices, re catholic v protestant (and probably something similar happened with John Fuller and Mary Seymour, MJRH's mother Ada's parents, some 120 years ago - no parental approval - they were never legally married, then forced by stigma / guilt to leave south coast / Kiama for far away Byron Bay) and glad they bucked the elders, but... It became even more interesting (as in the next level of hypocrisy) when years later with more family history research when it was realized that CFM's father William Chisholm Murray II born Fiji to on Alice Pfeiffer . That doesn't hit you until you see a an old group family photo taken in outback NSW some 80 odd years ago, where everyones faces are clear except Alice - she is so black it is barely visible. And that's CFM's paternal grandmother. In most racist societies being a little bit black makes you totally black... [Note: generally take family history with a pinch of salt - it is estimated 1 in 4 children fathered by someone else - and only the mother knows. As DNA testing becomes a more common tool in genealogy it will raise all kinds of twists...] Ironically, Ray's father went through all the turmoil to immigrate to Australia from Malta with a young family and set up better opportunities and Ray takes it all back to scratch based on spurious motives... Of course, they immediately put the writer's pointing out this hypocrisy down to his warped values. But in this case even the family patriarch, for a change did not quite faithfully tow the party line of the family mafia. How did he pass comment on it to me, his son, once? yeah it was in his usual 'beat around the bush vague', 'farm boy at heart' terms, "It's just a licence to fuck." And oh yeah - more proof of what a great husband he was in dragging his familly off to Eastern Europe - his wife having to come back to Australia to recover from the constant nervous breakdowns... And the more recent classic - Pastor Ray Busuttil scores some kind of freebie holiday to Cairns, even invites the son's girlfriend, miffing the older sister who was alone (according to the family gossip via David) - then expects Peter to do an airport pickup and take them all the way home to Croydon, on not just a Friday night at pub closing time, but on December 21 - end of year party night - the worst 2 hour block of the whole year for drunk drivers, and me with a brand new $50,000 Toyota 4WD - I end up taking Dad's little Getz, only got run off the road once by 4 drunks in a P-Plate car - even a kilometer from the airport the traffic was chaotic - when I finally found them I just handed over the keys and caught the train home - And that's exactly why the government put in the Airport line - so why couldn't they do that on such a night - Catherine later says "I didn't think it would be so busy" - if she had a brain she would be dangerous - but that was all completely acceptable behavior, wasn't it. And what have they done for me? Stir Mum up. What goes around comes around... Simon & Julie Breen - Bridgewater, Adelaide - [which extracts to paste in here...] Yep you guessed it, another 'arranged marriage' through the church 'fellowship'... that was accepted promptly too by our parents, to make sure Julie didn't go back to that 'black guy' she got serious with - sometimes even church fellowship can go wrong - maybe that was the devil (but we pretended that never happened too)... ... the episodes when Julie would phone up Mum and Dad after yet another nervous breakdown ... can't handle it ... elderly parents mercy dash in car from Sydney to Adelaide non stop ... how many times ... what if there had been a serious car accident e.g. the time side-swiped - effect on our family and the other car's family - who would have been held up as a big problem in the family then... They don't have to travel far to Peter's crises, nor risk a car accident - Simon and Julie were just so lucky there wasn't a very serious accident - they were side swiped once at high speed... Then how would you have felt. Who would we be blaming then? Not to mention the time Dad wasn't well at all and still felt pressured to drive back to Adelaide with you to help out with another crisis. And when he was clearly very ill down their gets shoved on a plane back to Sydney by himself. When Peter picked him up from the airport everyone thought he was a drunk, shirt hanging out, could walk properly until I realized he'd probably had a semi stroke. Nobody does that to my father and gets away with it. What goes around, comes around. If Simon wanted to take Julie to Adelaide (where he has said his father's business wasn't a big advantage, compared to setting up in Sydney)... It's an interesting scenario comparison - when Peter realized he would be having a baby, raising a child, a big factor was to be as close to grandparents as possible, some of the obvious advantages: financial, advice when baby is sick, baby-sitting, a barrier against double family dysfunctionality re other side of the family / bloodsuckers, offspring to know grandparents before they die, etc; but what if for some reason Peter had to setup far away from Sydney, would he have had more than one or two children, given the extra complications of having 4 or 6+ children; and if he was struggling would he have started phoning up to get elderly grandparents to make a mercy dash half way across the country to assist, many times; in such a case eventuating would he have moved back to Sydney or just handled it in the best way he could, just as Mum and Dad did without any grandparents around ... Then there's their beautiful house in the Adelaide Hills (Bridgewater). Wonderful, members and active in all kinds of things, except when it comes to membership local CFS (Country Firefighting Service) - someone else's father can fight the fires when they come (including New Zealander firefighters that risked their lives to give their Australian counterparts a break in the Victorian '06 fire / arson season). This becomes a fascinating and simple objective indicator of their Fair Dinkum Rating - some residents in such a high risk area would automatically, as fair dinkum Australians, just join the CFS; others the guilt and peer group pressure to still join; and others no sense of obligation at all! I guess somewhere in the good book it says that's OK for the "in-group". And praying for the eldest son to pass his year 12 exams even though he has been too busy with 'righteous activities' all through K-12 - all those church fellowships, where you meet the right people, with the right skin colour of course - can't repeat the mother's faux pas... And of course you are all the perfect partners, Pete does nothing significant for his, just incidental stuff like... save her life - by spending hours late at night doing a crash course in Uro-Gynaecology, under duress, dealing with tanties / mental health issues (even complaints about the noise from the computer while doing the research!), all while trying to protect my daughter from explicitly threatened abduction, and using my very influential website to shame doctors into doing the right thing, refer Prolapse Diary The fact is these people need to be educated on bit of reality, real concrete historical facts, clay tablets, plagiarism, the Gilgamesh Epic... And as a good start, produce a report based on your own fact-finding - so Pete can show my daughter - to include: - where in the bible it mentions 25 December as the birth of your figurehead? - if you can't find it, is it right, is it moral to hold it out to members and new converts as an original festival... And talking about setting example for our children, these wonderful son-in-laws, Pastor Ray Busuttil and Simon Breen, when you address my (and your wive's) parents, considering all they have done for you, especially my father, you call them "Dad" and "Mum", not their first names. More on Ray Busuttil (b. c.'1959) - electrician, aspiring envangelist, 10 years converting the Ukraine, European Christian Mission (ECM) Australia... Sometimes it's the everday petty, simple examples that tell you a lot about a person's character: - "The Paint Tin Episode" - It was back in '03 RB had been painting out one of his investment apartments. When finished had one of those huge paint tins to get rid of. Doesn't dump it in one of those huge garbage bins typical of apartment blocks, no, brings it back to the Hogan family house - takes it out of the car brings around the back of the house and dumps it in our small (designed for a 2 occupant household) just emptied council garbage bin, now making it just about full with 7 days to the next garbage pick up. Remembering we have 3 families in staying in the house - garbage of some 11 people. It had been bad enough trying to deal with the excess garbage during their 'visit' I was even carrying (walking, no car) garbage bags down to the local shopping centre (on top of a train station) bins, trying to dump them when bomb conscious security guys (re 911 and the Howard Bush invasion of Iraq) weren't watching. Practical everyday courtesies, or lack of - On a daily basis we all had to share the shower / bathroom - the commonsense / courteous thing to do would be avoid showering at the peak usage (toilet, washing hands, cleaning teeth, etc.) time for 11 people: 7:00 - 9:00am - you know just shower later in the day after they get back from beach trips. When does 'Mr Important' shower, every morning - the constant, someone in a rush goes to open the bathroom door, it's locked, "Ahhh, Ray's in the bloody shower again!"... More on Catherine Busuttil, (b. '1961) - wife of aspiring envangelist, class A stone thrower, protégé of her mother: In spite of her own claims, you only have to ask her own father before he dies, or brothers, to confirm that Catherine was one lazy daughter - no washing up or cooking, nothing - not once did she ever cook dinner before she left home to get married... Now coming to the present the Pastor Raymond and Catherine Busuttil perfect family have got to deal with certain problems that effect a lot of families in the modern age of immigration, mortgage stress, where to live, etc... Peter has had to deal with being caught up with a family that hails from a poor country (Nepal) - and the name of the game is the usual get as many of the extended family out, and into Australia... Now we are seeing the standard motif of what happens when, as in this case a certain family in Ukraine latches on to the Pastor teenage daughter. It wouldn't be a possibility would it, that Sasha and Elyce will be wanting to come and live in Australia. The start of the DIMI (Immigration Department) Visa games. Shouldn't be a problem getting first, Sasha in, then who's next, his ailing mother, get a sister in on a holiday visa, she falls in love with an Australian... There won't be any problems with Australian Immigration - with such a fine upstanding family like the Busuttils - they don't do anything tricky, do they... Oh yeh, and of course, it all costs money, and this suddenly exponentially growing Maltese Australian Ukrainian family needs a place to live, cant't really keep getting away with using the European Christian Mission setup at Croydon forever - people will start to talk (or post things on the Internet as they do in the modern age). So Pastor Raymond and Catherine Busuttil need a lot more money and or another free house. Yep you guessed it - the only way is to get Peter and his family out of their family house. So it can either be sold, or better still they replace Peter. 'Completely'. Of course that would be much better - no more complaints from CFM, all members of the 'in-group', the lovely Busuttils, and of course Sasha and Elyce, and they have got that piece of paper, they are married, they won't be having any relationship problems just because they got married as teenagers... And lots of church visitors, wonderful. And later of course, 'visitors' from the Ukraine, Sasha's family. And maybe a grandchild will be coming soon - to displace 5 year old Tara - wherever she will be living after 'The Plan' comes into force... More on the Classic Family Matriarch - armchair evangelist and dedicated bigot: - 40 years in Sydney - no significant community / charity work - all day cable TV tennis and religion channel (that's only ACCC Australian christian channel, thank you) - doesn't even support local in-group church - their brand of religion is not good enough and not worth putting the effort in to improve. - while just about everyone else retires outside of Sydney, including all of her own siblings - The Entrance, Kingscliff - not Gwen Hogan - even though she has to travel outside of Sydney to get to her higher in-group church. And her husband goes along with it - going on 20 years of retirement in the ratrace of Sydney. While his wife sits in front of the TV all day he sits in a chair out the back bored out of his brain. One wonders just how much that kind of lifestyle has contributed to his health problems. She could have had her cable TV tennis and religion up the coast somewhere and Dad could have gone fishing. Oh no "Dads's quite happy thank you very much". Well I guess his "Peace at any price" philosophy may be questionable... And for all the 'collusion' (the deceit and ulterior motives of family meeting - "We just wanna have a chat, see where we're at...") of getting the non-evangelist family out of the family house, and the perfect one in - the only bright spot in the day of an incapicitated octogenerian patriarch is his only paternal line grandchild, the apple of his eye, and dare we admit the words that grate so much in the world of sibling rivalry, 'far and away, his favourite granddaugher', Tara. Interestingly, everyone in the family is condescending of Dad - in a very blatant way - they all practice the higher form of christianity - Dad is simple - he's stuck in the Catholic old version. Of course once it was known the Busuttils would be returning it's been even more pressure to get us out - anybody, as long as they are member's of the in-group. And invariably the direct hints to get out usually come straight after Pete is sweating like pig after barrowing 20 loads of backyard rubbish with an untreated inguinal hernia... Nevermind CFM has had a life. We don't want to consider the priority of the wellbeing of the 5 year old only grandchild. No the 80 year old grandmother's religions come first... [Just link to main exposé here] The crux of it is if my little daughter, Tara, is going to continue to be damaged by actions, or lack of, by family on my own side, let alone the deadbeats on the other - that if there is to be this escalation towards tragedy - driven purely by bigotry and jealousy, Dad in lucid moments, albeit from the safety of being up in the shed, astonishingly, says "it aint religion, she's got a hatred for you". Jealous of me and Tara - that Dad doesn't love to watch tennis and religion all day. Another time in the shed when I asked him what he used to do before we came along, he just uncharacteristically dropped, "Come up to the shed and be depressed". Aged-Care Then there's what Aunty Pat went through which basically hastened her death - Dennis wanted to put her in a Nursing Home, they ended up doing expensive extensions on Geoffrey's house to put in a Granny flat - she didn't like it and was dead shortly after it was finished. Ideally ageing (grand)parents want to stay in their own home to the end, avoiding nursing homes or living with offspring. As for who lives with them, they are gonna prefer family, and it aint necessarily one of the other 3 families. Doesn' matter who you are, two families living together always means friction... Other Points - tax fraud issues - religious organizations that enjoy lots of tax exemptions abuse the system increasing the tax burden for other Australians - what are legitimate tax deductions and what's really personal expenses - fancy Apple Mac computers, cars, trips, fringe benefits tax - family and friends staying at the ECM complex especially to plan pathetic attacks. No doubt the usual motif / religion extortion - years back some dying desperado bequeaths the ECM Croydon mansion (or funds to buy it) to a religion / faction, and the descendants are now broke / trailer trash [currently investigating history of that house and ownership transfers] This is in a very important area of morality - breaking moral codes that effect to not just our clan - but our relationship to Australian society. Ray Busuttil is setting the role model for the clan grandchildren that it's fine to for family and friends from outside Sydney to use the European Christian Mission Croydon house for free accommodation. And Peter has said in writing sometime ago that a room in the family house will always be available. Comparison Summaries As a son: There is strong evidence that Peter made it possible for Dad to knock out several extra years (now in his 82nd year) mainly due to just being around with his grandaughter and finding him a fair dinkum heart specialist in Dr Vale, not to mention also a new skin cancer specialist, or zoo out the back - the aquariums and birds. Would Mum have preferred to to have Dad dead several years ago, and to start dealing with all you vultures... Did all Peter's crises long distance dangerous high speed mercy trips... As a father: How many fathers have forgone the income and the associated lifestyle, Pete has for his daughter. He didn't drag her off to some 3rd world country. She was allowed to experience her grandparents, totally. She wasn't dumped with carers, nor went to preschool. She has now started kindergarten, the most objective tests are: she was the first in her class of 20 to go up and receive an award at Assembly, and after 2 months of the Term 1, in KC's class tokens awarded race for performance (next to the blackboard) - Tara is leading. And the other parents can see Peter is such a bad father, not to mention mentally unsound, that he has been voted Vice-President of the school's Parents & Citizens Association! As a partner: Before Peter met Tara's mother she was working 2, sometimes 3 jobs to make ends meet because the father of her teenager has never paid child support - in the current times - the mortgage stress and increasing western suburb defaults she would have been gone. Since meeting Peter she has never had to work an extra job. He didn't drag her off to some far away strange place away from her family. On the contrary, straight after hooking up with Peter he got her mother from Nepal into Australia - something thousands of dollars on crooked Immigration consultants could not achieve. Peter has been able to restrict the level of bloodsucking from her own family, signing her up to Fitness First Gym - her first hobby / interest outsided of working in her entire life. Peter in the 6 years hasn't been going to the club every afternoon, and coming home drunk, and playing golf or going hunting and fishing on weekends and holidays with his mates... He hasn't been sitting in the bus on the way home from work with some attractive women and then followed her to her bedroom... She hasn't had to kid herself that just wearing G-String underwear will fix everything - so you can go around boasting, "We have a wonderful sex life, and you don't!" After 20 years... The objective observer is only too aware of the reality... And when you are over 40 with baggage are you that much better off moving out, who wants you - then you are labelled a single parent - when the girls get together there are 3 scenarios, listed in order of what they don't want to hear to avoid bitching behind your back: 1. Most preferred: "My partner is a total asshole!" = "Phew... I don't feel so bad about my fucked situation." 2. "Well, my partner is just wonderful!" = "Bitch, we all know she's kidding herself." 3. Least preferred: "We split, I'm on my own now." = "Uh-Orrr - not inviting her over to our place again, she'll be after my asshole, and he'll go for it..." Making it possible to be around grandparents can be good - for her Dad has been the father she never had - and she calls him "Dad", not his first name, like certain ungrateful and disrespectful brothers-in-law (how do you earn any FDR stars just on that point alone!?). And oh yeah. That other insignificant point - Peter saved her life following medical malpractice at St George Hospital. That fact is already well documented in the Prolapse Diary. It just doesn't seem very logical for Peter to be attacked - "He does nothing for her..." She simply wouldn't be in existence if not for Peter. Now can any of you beat that. How are you going to expect the outside observer to rate Peter FDR 1Star on that one, and you people FDR 5Stars? And this is the main exuse that keeps getting pushed lately as to why Peter and family has to be kicked out - CFM is stressed because Peter and SK have a lousy relationship, 1Star - way behind the 5Star relationships of everyone else in the extended family. It supposedly even caused the 'turn' causing loss of memory, CFM had on Sunday 13iv08. Nevermind that it happened with Catherine Busuttil present, clearly having stirred her up (and the previous week when SK took her to churh she returned home with no drama). And when they get back home after the visit to the hospital, instead of letting things rest after an apparent tumultuous day, Catherine immediately puts the boot in, as always very subtle, very rehearsed, and lays 100% of the blame on Peter and his imperfect relationship, especially compared to her and wonderful Pastor Raymond Busuttil. And oh yes it was exactly the same as the turn caused by David some years ago, but as Catherine said that was different, that only lasted for one day (well this latest one lasted for hours). Now nobody wants to go near the family history facts as can be confirm by the Patriarch. Mum kicked Peter out of the house in his early 20s, and again on his return from Japan. At neither time was Peter living in the family house in a 'relationship' - the tantrum was purely brought about by bigotry. And shortly after Tara was born she ordered Peter out of the house, again only because he is not a member of the 'in group' Conclusions All the usual family bickering, internecine ...as a family clan, basically since the first generations in Australia - in all that time, have done pretty much nothing - no founding of a significant public organization or member of Federal parliament, no-one mentioned regularly in national news reports. No-one that significantly contributes to Australian society. Not one of us - pretty pathetic, lazy, selfish performance. Enough is enough. Stay obstinate, then go down in family / society history shamed. It's so easy in the modern age to play the Tit-4-Tat stone throwing game, to get things out there. Essentially a survey of the world's biggest hypocrites - both random and selective - emails, registered post, in Australia, overseas - Europe, Ukraine, England, etc; the general public and specific individuals, organizations - religious (ECM etc), Australian Taxation Office, etc; the Internet, forums, chat rooms, blogs ...it's even easy to arrange to have some kid put up posters around your street and shopping centres Even after 'the evil one' is dead. Again it's amazing how easy it is to arrange all kinds of things on the Internet. And it's not just a simple case of Dad dying and Mum moves in with one of you. Despite what she says deep down she prefers to live in her house of 40 years - if Peter goes, she would be the type to have some family from the evangelist church at Minto (which has extorted most of her pension over the last 20 years) move in, and probably take over the family house from all of us. The Smoking Gun Then these siblings setup a family meeting, actually a 'Spanish Inquisition' (chaired by the Pastor Raymond Busuttil). Right from the beginning, MJRH (and even GOH) realized that they were only after the family house. GOH was quite taken aback - they were supposed to just concentrating on getting evil Peter (the only non-christian in the family) out, and keeping GOH's little setup (some 12 hours a day of cable TV - religion, tennis...) in tact. Instead, each one of the Defendants opened with statements that when MJRH dies, the family house is to be sold and GOH is to go live at their house. There was then a scramble by MJRH to find his Will (made in '1985). And then a good long hard think about what they both 'really' wanted. (Years earlier, MJRH had seen the BallyHogan family estate at Byron Bay get lost in sibling bickering, and even GOH with the Murray family estate around the corner at 49 Verdun Street Bexley when she was cheated out of her share by her siblings, Edna and Max.) This included several visits to, and consultation with, the Public Trustee of NSW 19 O'Connell St Sydney - with Jill Day et al in July '07. It was mainly realized from that legal advice that no matter what they put in their Wills, offspring / descendants with unAustralian lawyers could challenge the intent of their wishes. The outcome was that MJRH actually added a very personal firm wish to his Will that the family house at 124 Wolseley Street Bexley is never to be sold. MJRH states clearly that not only is the family house never to be sold, but it is to remain a family base and a "refuge". And even GOH wrote something similar. MJRH even had it recorded for posterity on video. For an extract of the Will on video click here. It's The Smoking Gun - the change to MJRH's Will after the Spanish Inquisiton backfired - "The family house is never to be sold... a place of refuge where people can come..." 
MJRH & GOH Will Video Transcript 2viii07 - sitting at kitchen table of family house - Will documents on table: MJRH: ...It's my wish that the place remain our home until Gwen & I both passed on, and further more I wish that in the future that it be held as a refuge. GOH: ...and never be sold. MJRH: And never be sold. GOH: So (reading addition to MRJH Will) I want this letter included in my Will, as I have had my Will checked [by the Public Trustee NSW Jul '07] and it appears to be OK. What I want. 1. I don't want. The house never to be sold until Gwen and I both passed on. 2. Further more, if possible ["if possible" because he knew after talking to the Public Trustee NSW that his wishes could be challenged by smart-arsed lawyers / descendants] I would like to see the place as a place of refuge in the future and never to be sold. Do you want to add anything to that? MJRH:No leave it at that. Put Amen. Just like to say that 124 Wolseley Street stays as a place for people to come... 
Indeed, I would suggest that a Court would determine from the video that he basically meant, his Fair Dinkum Australian descendants could live in the family house. Now that of course does raise a problem: a number of the extended family have got no idea what to be Fair Dinkum means! So to spell it out, I don't think Dad means a family refuge only for perfect families, with perfect relationships. And I don't think he meant that his favourite and only paternal line grand-daughter, 5 year old Tara, is also banished from continuing to live in her family house, that she is to move out to some unit somewhere to the 'mortgage default' suburbs, with all kinds of whackos around her, particularly as she inarguably - as in the ONLY thing that brings him joy - kept her Grandad going to his current 82nd year. If you need confirmation of that I'll put up more videos, or ask him yourself, personally, before he dies. And if he had died 5 years ago it would have been a worse outcome for ALL players. So you may be hanging out for your share of the house, but it aint gonna be landing in your bank accounts anytime soon. Unless you could get that Will changed back, but you all 'evangelist christians' wouldn't do anything that underhanded would you... Now the other cold hard fact is that over the last 6 years Peter has forgone a lot of income, not just to be a stay-at-home Dad for my little daughter, but also the aged-care issue that every family has to face (e.g. Aunty Pat). Ergo David and Joanne were so desparate for me to stay that time I returned from Japan so they could escape to Port Macquarie. Did they care what the circumstances would be, whether I was now a puritan? No, they just wanted to escape. And Peter has 'officially' offered / demanded [that registered letter also being your last official warning before this went public] that at least one of the siblings occupy the bedroom next to Mum and Dad's to give him a break, starting with David and Joanne, but deafening silence - can't disrupt their comfortable daily routines - just more backstabbing. But really why doesn't David in particular spend a lot more time down here considering the worsening circumstances, especially with Dad in his 82nd year and ailing badly. David and Joanne have no kids, no jobs. David has been 'retired' up in Port Macquarie since his 40s. Come down give Peter a break - you see how you go handling the shit that goes down, day in and day out 24/7 It would have been shit easy for Peter to maintain some mundane job scanning mobile phone bills, even part-time would have been an extra $20,000 a year over 6 years lost, or just be the deadbeat father and leave Tara to child care - have a full-time job, drop into the club every afternoon, come home drunk, weekend golf... Full-time mundane job, that would have been easily a modest $40,000 a year with increments and promotion while the economy was China / resources boon strong... So it has meant no clothes, no holidays, etc. Just non-stop criticism that I don't do enoough for everyone. And why would I stay anywhere near the family house, who needs Mum's ingratitude. And Peter not doing the dirty work would have meant a lot of extra time and cost for all of you other siblings... Does anybody appreciate that Peter has forgone easily $240,000 in return for all your ingratitude? Particularly for Dad. If you really care about him. It is a fact, it suited Mum to stay in Sydney after retirement with her religion and tennis interests, but for Dad over the last 20 years it's meant everyday killing time with a stick, rather than being up the coast somewhere, like all the other Murray Uncles and Aunts. In the end it was killing him. Peter and Tara gave him a lift. And rather than Mum being thankful that us coming along, made it easier for her to keep her little roost going, without resorting to a nurse for Dad or having to maybe move if he died and she was struggling... she has been totally unthankful - looking a gift horse in the mouth - blinded by bigotry. It makes all these Spanish Inquisition tricks absolutely evil - if the observer believed in such nonsense they would think you are all possessed by the Devil - the height of evangelist hypocrisy. Now if it had turned out, 6 years ago we found are selves a great setup over on the northern beaches somewhere, like Dee Why, if you cared about Dad you would all have been hassling me from Ukraine, Port Macquarie, or Adelaide, to go over to the family house more often, do this, do that - why don't you move there, live at the family house and look after them - we'll all pay you an allowance to make it worth it. And there's always the possibility that Mum may have brought in stangers from Minto Church that took over the house... So things could have turned out very differently, especially without the Tara factor - if she didn't happen, Dad might have deteriorated to the point where he didn't die, but needed expensive in-house nursing care (a Nursing Home not be an option because Mum was still OK). Was everyone going to chip in $3-400 a week to pay for that and often the care is unsatisfactory e.g. the rush by nurses to use catheters? That's the dilemma of the aging society - how much did it cost for the Mitchel's to do the Granny Flat extension, only to see Aunty Pat die anyway? $30-40,000. What could Dennis and Geoff have done with that money... And when Catherine comes over to do one of her specials - invariably well planned, with her wonderful pastor husband (and who knows, probably the rest of you were in on it too) especially when Peter is not at home - like when she goes to work on my little daughter's mother (sk), and tells her they havs to move out in 2 weeks - just leave Peter - and of course Mum is giving full support to the plan. Nobody cares about the effect on Tara and Grandad. And Dad actually tells Catherine to back off. Well that particular deranged behaviour didn't help things - so Peter moved this webpage from a private directory out into the public domain. Peter's Mental Competence And then we have the new tactic that Peter is suddenly mentally unsound and needs psychiatric treatment. That was never raised as an issue before. Especially when Mum kicked Peter out when he was in his 20s (30 years ago), again when he returned from Japan in his early 40s (10 years ago), and shortly after coming back with the birth of Tara (born 5 years ago). So going back 4 - 5 years Peter has reguarly been ordered by Mum to get out, even when he was living 'in' the house. Not because she and siblings said Peter is mentally unsound, but simply because of bigotry and hatred - she, and all you evangelist christians, cannot stand to have a 'pagan' in the house. And what better star witness to confirm the fact that this is all about bigotry than Dad. Even if he dies, his statements have been recorded for evidence - a sample here. And the best evidence of all, is evolution and sociology. Everyone knows there is parent-offspring conflict - parents have their favourites, and the ones they can't stand, for whatever reason, bigotry, substance abuse, bums - a man, a father, can't stay home and raise a daughter... And sibling rivalry. Jealousy. The shitfight over the family house. The Will... Most families go through the same thing. It's not about, "It's all happening only to me - my life is unbearable - these people are bums..." And in the current socio-econmic times - escalating rents, mortgage defaults - young families living in cars - grown adult children are moving back (some never left) to the family house with the parents / grandparents. And the vast majority of them don't get along. All complicated by the greying / aging society - aged care cost - more nursing homes, catheters - can't stand their own family... 50 years ago, when the current octogenarians were starting out - like ours for instance - the shitfight over what was left of the Byron Bay family property (after the Catholic Church were finished getting their slice) was very quickly over (and the pioneering Great Grandfather's blood, sweat and tears, all gone up in smoke, for 20 peices of silver (no wonder Dad changed his Will - his wish that the family house never be sold and be kept as place of refuge) and anyway Dad got his cut of the 'inheritance' before he was 30 (now siblings have to wait till there 50s) which enabled him to get out of renting and put down a deposit on a house... Nobody questioned Peter's mental competence when he recently saved Dad's life (and that fact can be backed up with documentary evidence). Peter was the one who took control after Dr Sidhom's malpractice which almost killed Dad in September '07. And, on the day, Dr Sidhom's partner, Dr Bazergy, having realized that Dr Sidhom had misprescribed Lasix (which she should not have been giving him anyway without consultation with Dr Vale) without the Spironolactone to hold in Potassium levels (all she had to do was check her MIMs) Dr Bazergy could see Dad was in trouble and should have kept him at their Carlton Medical Practice and called for an ambulance. Instead he got rid of us. Sent us off to St George Emergency by car! Dad could have easily died on the way, in the front seat, with Peter driving and Tara in the back. We only just made it to the hospital, and down he went. We thought he was gone. Then, only to lose more valuable time, because the only thing the Emergency Staff had to go on, was a letter from Dr Bazergy (which Peter knew was important enough to dig up later in Dad's hospital file). In his 'referral' Dr Bazergy just happened to forget to mention exactly what his partner Dr Sidhom had done, losing more valuable time as staff had to do tests, then belatedly get Potassium back into Dad's system. Dad recoverd for a day or so, then started going backwards, at one point interns, or whoever they were, were going off on the wild goose chase of a pacemaker... Peter was the one who had the eclectic intelligence, the mental soundness, to find like a needle in a haystack of the NSW stuffed health system, Dr Vale and the Mater Hospital, North Sydney (not the two nurses in the family, Catherine and Julie). Peter got Dad away from the incompetent St George Area health system. All made possible because Peter was the only one who is mentally competent, and as he has extensive experience with SK's health problems in this area, which resulted in finding her specialists at the Royal Hospital for Women, Randwick, for her latest round. But what does Mum say? God was just temporarily using Pagan Peter. But the reality is none of the hypocrites even know what I really did re Dr Vale and his Personal Assistant, "DiDi" - another reason why this matter has to be made public and get the evidence presented for all to see. And of course not wanting to even try to remember what really happened is the perfect way for these fine upstanding members of our society to wash their hands of bringing Drs Sidhom and Bazergy to account, to ensure the same thing doesn't happen to another family. We no longer go anywhere near health professionls in this area, and you people still expect Peter to use them... And why was the Will changed less than a year ago? What did that have to do with Peter, and even his mental state. Mum certainly can't stand having 'Peter the Pagan' in the house any longer, not to mention her jealously of not just the longtiome close relationship between Peter and Dad, but even worse surpassed by that between Tara and Grandad, which she is on record admitting. And of course there is lots of evidence to come out in Court of Catherine stirring Mum up, not surprising how much things have deteriorated since the Busuttils returned from the Ukraine to the European Christian Mission house in Croydon. Which is now used as a staging post to plan more domestic violence. How can Pastor Ray Busuttil keep using a house donated by some family (now probably with descendants living our of a car after having defaulted on their mortgage payments) for such daibolical personal use? And the teenage married daughter and Ukrainian husband with family in tow are gonnea be migrating to Australia. And maybe soon the European Christian Mission is going to think this is all becoming bad publicity for their little operation. And maybe cut Pastor Ray Busuttil loose... And we have the Breens - Simon and Julie - The Breen Chiropractic Business. Simon's health has gone. They have to buy into a business, now, in '08. It all costs a lot of money. (The kind of amounts that are much bigger than what we are talking about when Julie was so miffed they could no longer bury the cost of their family second car in the business tax return...) And the Port Maquarie David and Joanne Hogans can't handle stones be thrown back at them either, especially with the skeletons in their closet. The only way is to now change tactics, that Peter has suddenly gone insane. And if he is so dangerous why has David been living over at European Christian Mission house - he only comes to the family house in the day time when Peter, and family, are not there (of course Peter is not in the house at anytime - minimizing attack tantrums by living in the backyard shed). David was told by Peter in writing well before the deterioration really got going with the scheming he and Catherine and Pastor Ray are doing over at European Christian Mission house in Croydon - that a room in the family house would be permanently made available to him (SK's son would move to the back room with her). Now what could be the real reason David does not stay at the family house and protect his mother from evil Peter. Could his and Joannes long history of brief visits (that even Mum has complained about) could it be that if he was living, day in and day out, with Mum, especially at the aged-care end in her 80s, for years, not hours... would it be possible that Mum, and even Dad, would be clashing with David and Joanne, the perfect ones, compared to Peter and family. For an objective reference outside the family, just matter of weeks before being accused of being mentally unsound the other parents at his daughter's school voted Peter Vice-President of the school's Parents & Citizens Association! 
Aptly, the election result was announced in the school newletter that reminded the kids of the plagiarized ancient Eostre Northern Hemisphere Spring Equinox Festival and Harmony Day (March 20) - a day these fundamentalists have absolutely no concept of, their way is the only true way, all non-members are doomed to hell and persecution, there can be no tolerance. And the National Library of Australia in Canberra requested permission from Peter to archive his work for all time under their Pandora Program (ref. 44031). It satisfied the objective admission guidelines that included that it "be on a subject of social, political, cultural, religious, scientific or economic significance and relevance to Australia and be written by an Australian author; and be written by an Australian of recognised authority and constitute a contribution to international knowledge". Anyway, Peter is so insane that he is quite happy to air the whole thing in a Court. Peter has nothing to hide, is pround of his achievements under the trying cirumstances, and is particularly insulted that his name and character have been defamed, and outraged that now his little daughter, Tara, is being exposed to this abuse. Not to mention adding this case study on the problem of too many Australians not being Fair Dinkum to his Federal Election '10 Campaign for a Senate Seat in Canberra. The reality is, the evidence shows, you are all hypocrites, as Dad said in the postmortem to the April'07 Spanish Inquisition over at the European Christian Mission house in Croydon, when asked by Julie to spell it out, Dad has gone on record repeating his comment to Peter, that he said, "Peter is better than whole lot you put together." The evidence and the long history shows that this is all about hypocrisy, discrimination and money. So now the time has finally come. It's been a good 40 years, but what goes around, comes around. Now it will all be presented in the proper place, because you people just won't let up, everyday exposing my daughter to escalating abuse. Legal Action 
At the end MJRH was ready to hand over half the house to Peter to keep him and Tara with him, but the GHP got to him. Particularly in light of the way MJRH died - in the end he knew his Tara was going to be forced out of the family house on Friday 23 May '2008 so if she was going on that day so was he. The matter now will be settled by Australia's justice system. To safeguard the well-being of MJRH's primary concern to his death - his only Hogan grandchild. The evidence, and the sequence of events over many years, has to be presented and examined by an Australian Court. First we will be taking this matter to the Police and then the Courts. And the European Christian Mission will be named in the action as well, for aiding and abetting this behaviour, for allowing Pastor Raymond and Catherine Busuttil to use ECM facilities to provide free accommodation, etc., for co-perpetrators like David and Julie, a place that they use to gang-up, hold meetings, plan and execute action that violate Australian Laws, carried out by people who hold themselves out to be model citizens in our society, activities we will prove in Court that sink to the depths of moral behaviour, terrorism of a 5 year old little girl. Maybe other young victims in fundamentalist families will start following Pete's lead exposing these people in both an Australian Court and the Court of Public Opinion. Maybe our legal action will force them to stop focusing on themselves and start doing something Fair Dinkum for Australia. |
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Links: Back Contact The Smoking Gun - the change to MJRH's Will after the Spanish Inquisiton backfired click here for an extract of the Will on video - "The family house is never to be sold... a place of refuge where people can come..." Peter's Mental Competance - including a recording of MJRH confirming that this is not about Peter being suddenly insane but rather there has been bigotry and abuse going back many years... Peter voted Vice-President of his daughter's school Parents & Citizens Association in March '08
They have Pete declared mentally unsound and they're 'Animal Killers' - check out what's happened to MJRH's animals, especially Oscar, here. And the ultimate - they got rid of the one person who was holding things up - when Peter and Tara were still there Grandad was hanging in there - within days of the evangelist hypocrites taking over the family house, Grandad is dead - he knew his beloved Granddaughter was being kicked out on 23 May '08 so if she was going, so was he. Legal Action - are these evangelist fanatics above Australian Law - will they get away with killing Tara's Grandad Peter Hogan's Oeuvre Fair Dinkum Australian Ratings Col Stringer - Evangelist Impostor Prolapse Diary Pelvic Floor Care Foundation Peter Hogan's work archived in the National Library of Australia (The Pandora Great Australians Project) Case Law Precedents Anti-Discrimination Board Domestic Violence Dept Community Services (DOCS) DV Helpline 1800 656 463 Child Abuse 132 111 Family Relationship Centres Harmony Day Tolerance.org The God Delusion - Richard Dawkins The Moral Animal - Robert Wright Ray Busuttil European Christian Mission Australia 15 Malvern Ave Croydon 2132 ecm.oz@ecmi.org raybus@optusnet.com.au |
In the end he knew his Tara was going to be forced out of the family house on Friday 23 May '2008 so if she was going on that day so was he.
Matthew James Roger Hogan
Born: 15 December '1926 Byron Bay NSW Died: 23 May '2008 Bexley NSW In his 82nd Year |
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